A room with a view-photo by the author. |
So as it turns out the Most Wonderful Woman in the World is both lucky at love and at cards. And the Luckiest Man in the World– that’s me by the way– got to do a ride-along when the aforementioned Most Wonderful Woman in the World went to Vegas for a couple of days last week.
We had one heck of a time. My lady love has mad skills in the casino, and I wrote a bunch. Plus the Bellagio’s atrium is currently decorated for Christmas. If you happen to find yourself in Vegas, it would be a shame to miss it.
Longtime readers of this blog (Both of you!) will no doubt remember that l lived and worked in Vegas for a couple of years back when the world was young. It was the beginning of my public school teaching career, and I could not have asked for a better baptism of fire than teaching in one of the Clark County School District’s schools.
Because I worked with some of the best teachers in the world. Because they were generous with their time and their advice, and they were overwhelmingly effective in their example. I learned tricks of the trade that I use every day to this day.
Stuff like learning a kid‘s name. Using it. Making sure to pronounce it correctly. Letting them see you do that. It’s a great way to show you care enough to say their name right, and that means that you care about them. You build a relationship with these kids– and this is true anywhere in the world– and your work gets monumentally easier. My heroes, the Vegas teachers, taught me that.
So anyway, it’s always nice to visit Vegas, and when I go, I try to get out to places that tend to be far away from the strip (like Red Rock Canyon. Not to be missed!), and the best thing about it, is I always return home with ideas for stories. Because Vegas is full of characters. Let me give you just one example.
The Calico Hills, Red Rock Canyon-author’s photo |
More shots of Red Rock- all author’s photos. |
Robyn and I were headed to the airport to catch our flight home. We had eaten at an Italian place I knew of away from the Strip, so rather than cab it, we called for a Lyft. And that was how we met Mark.
Mark’s SUV make & model |
Nice guy. Early 60s, so a few years older than me. Drove a sweet Mercedes SUV. Spotlessly clean. Told us all about how he was working on getting his CDL, because the money was so much better than driving for either Lyft or Uber.
Not Mark-but definitely his fleece. |
Now, this was a guy whose entire appearance practically screamed “MONEY.” Manicure. $200 haircut. Expensive base layer fleece that retails starting at firm $150. So I was somewhat surprised to hear him complaining (however mildly) about money.
Then came the segue. While talking about money, Mark made an oblique reference to the recent election (full disclosure: I think Mark would have been surprised to learn that in this election I backed the accomplished brown-skinned lady with the foreign-sounding first name.). He said, “Yeah, I was tired of seeing all of the money leave the country, instead of coming into it, and felt like we needed a change.”
Bear in mind that my origin story includes being born in, raised in, and taking frequent sojourns in what the chattering class have lazily begun to refer to as “Trump Country.” I call this “lazy,” because I am well aware that aside from campaign stops and photo ops, Donnie Dollhands wouldn’t be caught dead in places that bear such a moniker.
But I’m from there. I still have friends and family there, and I have learned how to either talk with the people I care about whose opinions differ from mine, or even more importantly, how NOT to talk to them about things like politics. It is definitely a skill.
I used that skill to evade being drawn into just such a discussion with Mark. But as it turns out, he wasn’t done trying.
When I mentioned I used to work in Vegas, he asked what line of work I was in. I told him I was a history teacher and a writer.
He immediately seized on the “teacher” part. Asked about whether I had any exposure to students categorized as “ESL” (“English as a Second Language”- an outdated term outside of Vegas. Several years back the state changed the acronym to “ELL” - “English Language Learners”, and more recently to “MLE” - “Multilingual Education,” but I wasn’t about to tell him this.).
I replied that I did. In fact I worked very closely with kids in that program.
And then he said it.
“I bet they’re a real drag on your resources, huh.?”
Well.
No.
Far from it.
And I made a decision that I wasn’t going to avoid this conversation after all. I mean why not? I kinda liked the guy. And all he was really doing was the all-too human move of seeking confirmation/support for his biases. We’ve all been there.
So I told him no. I told him my hardest working group of students tended to contain high numbers of “ESL” kids. I further explained that I teach in one of the most diverse districts in the nation (we are situated cheek by jowl with a huge refugee resettlement center.) and something like 240 different languages are spoken in my district.
And that’s the thing: I explained. I didn’t lecture. I didn’t proselytize. I kept my tone light, breezy, conversational. My very first response to his question about “those kids“ being a “drag“ was to say: “On no, far from it. Some of the hardest-working kids I have are ‘newcomers.’ I teach in a very diverse district with a ton of different languages being spoken there. And I invite anybody to come on into my school. Come on into my classroom. Mark, if you ever find yourself anywhere near my patch, get in touch with me. Come visit. It will blow your mind.”
To his credit, Mark listened. Or he at least seemed to. Our conversation stayed pleasant. And then we moved on to him telling Robyn and I a cool story about him watching a semi truck practically blow up during a training exercise gone horribly wrong (no one was hurt) on a part of the freeway one of his CDL classes was using for training.
I told him I was going to use his description in this other story I’ve been thinking about. This is one I’ve told before about a former student of mine who teamed up with a friend to steal cinderblocks from a construction site and spend a lot of time trying to drop them on cars from the loca I-15 overpass back when I still taught down there.
I think I’m gonna put those two together and I think I just might have something. I’ll keep you guys posted.
And I already promised Mark I would use his name.
So yeah, Vegas well-spring of stories! And as it turns out, civilized political discourse.
Who knew?
And on that note, my time here draws to a close with this, my final blog entry of the year. I wish you all the finest of holidays, and a blessed new year. See you in January 2025!
From my brief experience teaching what were then officially ESL students, I can certainly agree that they come to learn! A good blog for the season of good will.
ReplyDeleteThank you for modeling what civil discourse looks like, Everyone says we need it, but few illustrate how. Your post showed how: explain, don't lecture, and tell your story matter-of-factly.
ReplyDeleteI got married in Vegas in 2007 (still married to the same woman). I have never thought about writing about the characters there but now that you mention it, several come to mind. Thank you for that!
ReplyDeleteGreat blog, Brian! Such a good reminder to keep discussions cheerful, and not combative. I had the same experience at college, with ESL students. Melodie
ReplyDeleteI taught ESL students when I was doing my undergraduate work, and they were always great. BTW, I think Vegas might have the same approach to strangers as Hollywood did / does: always be polite, because you never know if that person looking like crap might be someone uber-wealthy or the next big star.
ReplyDeleteWell done, Brian. In a situation with so many poor choices, you knew exactly how to handle it.
ReplyDeleteA number of people on an Amtrak train had queued at the restroom. I arrived as a defensive couple in the back row were debating major Trump fans. The couple had become shrill, were doing all the wrong things, and were definitely on their back foot. (foots? feets?)
In contrast, although in the absence of facts, the MAGA point man was confident and pleasant, the kind of guy you’d like to have as a friend even if he claimed Tump’s policies were the cleverest notions since Reconstruction.
As the line shuffled toward the restroom, I came even with the guy and the defensive couple. He was pontificating how awful bleeding heart libs and leftists were, and I interrupted. I said, “Oh come on. You’re one big softie. If this train wrecked right now, you’d be the first to help rescue others, liberals or not.”
He turned red and mumbled, “Well, maybe… but not Hillary.”
I laughed. Couldn’t ask for better than that.
Fantastic post (and kind comeback to your driver, Brian! Kudos, my fellow mystery scribe.
ReplyDeleteForgot to leave my name: Carole T. Beers, author ("Granny Takes Las Vegas")
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