Last year I wrote about the value of attending Bouchercon and other conventions (“Make Time for Meet-Ups”), especially for writers, and then, as now, I believe much of the value comes from planned and unplanned meet-ups.
The panels and formal presentations can be educational and entertaining, but they are most often intended for fans. The real value for writers happens in the hallways, at meals, and in the bar each evening. That’s when we rub elbows with other writers, editors, and publishers. That’s when we have the opportunity to develop business relationships and friendships, find collaborators and co-editors, and discover potential publishers for our short stories and novels.
For some of us, though, being gregarious does not come naturally. Being surrounded by so many people overwhelms us because we are at our best alone in a room with a book or a keyboard. But make the effort. Introduce yourself to someone you’ve never met or ask a question you’ve always wanted to ask.
If the thought of approaching someone you don’t already know makes you want to run screaming into the night, find a wingperson. When Temple is able to attend conventions with me, she serves as my wingperson. Several times, when my wife was unable to join me, Stacy Woodson, who I met at Malice Domestic several years ago and with whom I’ve collaborated on a variety of projects, has been my wingperson.
And there’s nothing wrong with taking breaks away from the crowd. Find a quiet corner, take a walk outside the venue, or disappear into your room for a brief interlude before rejoining the action.
Over time, though, if you attend enough crime fiction conventions, you’ll have less need of a wingperson and may need fewer or shorter breaks from the action. The people you already know will introduce you to people they know, and your ever-growing circle of acquaintances will soon make it impossible to walk down a hallway without being pulled into a conversation with new friends.
And, please, if you see me, feel free to introduce yourself.
Where to Find Me at Bouchercon
Friday, 3:30-4:20 p.m.
Bayou CD Mezzanine
Maxwell’s Silver Hammer
“Why is Editing so Hard?”
Moderator: Jessica Case
Panelists: Michael Bracken, Joe Brosnan, Ashley Sargeant Hagan, Otto Penzler, Luisa Cruz Smith
Sunday, 9:30-10:20 a.m.
Canal E Mezzanine
Achy Breaky Heart
“Short Stories—A Satisfying Snack Between Novels or the Perfect Bite?”
Moderator: Verena Rose
Panelists: Meredith Anthony, Daniel C. Bartlett, Michael Bracken, Don Bruns, Josh Pachter
I remember when I went to the Bouchercon in Santa Monica, and Brian Thornton, bless him, was my wing man. It was great. Will be with you all in spirit!
ReplyDeleteExtremely accurate description of my struggles with conventions! And sage advice. Looking forward to meeting you face to face this week.
ReplyDeleteI attended Bouchercon last year. I didn't have a wing person, unless you count the people I knew from Sisters in Crime LA. But I served two hours at the SinC LA table, handing out bookmarks and taking to people about the chapter. I was surprised at how I managed to talk with people, as I am an introspective type. Everyone was friendly. I didn't run into any of the "microaggressions" we were warned against. I wish I could be there this year but $ problems. Maybe next year.
ReplyDeleteYears ago, it really helped when someone assured me that you didn't have to drink or even eat something to "hang out in the bar at Bouchercon." Willingness to schmooze or—in some cases—to listen was enough.
ReplyDeleteThis is my first year and I look forward to it--and seeing you again, Michael!
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