by Robert Lopresti
I went to high school in New Jersey. Every March 17 people at my school celebrated Saint Patrick's Day in the usual way. Wear green or get pinched. KISS ME I'M IRISH buttons. Shamrock jewelry. Nothing unusual there.
But there were some people of Italian ancestry who got irritated. Why did the Irish get all the attention? And so they announced, completely inaccurately, that the day after Saint Patrick's Day was Saint Luigi's Day, a celebration of Italian-American heritage. And they came in, dressed appropriately.
Now, this was just after Mario Puzo's classic novel The Godfather was published, so that was how they chose to dress. Like 1940s gangsters.
Do I need to say I'm not making this up? I should probably say that while I am half-Italian and one-eighth Irish, I was not part of this group.
Every year it got more and more elaborate. By the time I was a senior some of the celebrants were arriving on March 18th in a rented limousine with violin cases containing toy machine guns.
(And let's ponder that for a moment. What would happen nowadays to a high school kid who even suggested bringing a toy machine gun to school? He'd be on a plane to Guantanamo before gym class.)
So at long last we graduated and went off to jobs or academe. One friend of mine, Tim, went to college in Baltimore where he shared a house with several other students. One day a housemate was strolling through an alley (and what he was doing in a Baltimore alley alone is probably a good story in itself, but I don't know it.) There, lying on top of a trash can, was a dry cleaner's bag.
Tim's friend took it home, check it for bloodstains and bullet holes, and tried it on. Alas, it was too slim for him. (Maybe that was the original owner's problem too, come to think of it.) It turned out to be a perfect fit for Tim, so he graciously passed it on. Now all Tim needed was an occasion to wear it to.
Now it happened that Tim's university. like many others, had an event called Casino Night, where students could gamble with tokens. Perfect! And Tim had a friend who made his pocket money betting on this or the other, and sometimes wore an outfit Tim referred to as "racetrack tout." So picture the two of them strolling around Casino Night, catching the eye of more conventionally dressed college students.
The friend was sitting at the poker table while Tim stood behind him, standing somberly in his
gangster outfit, both of them looking like they had just strolled out of a noir picture.
Tim replied with his best Brooklyn accent (which is how people think those from the Garden State talk). "I'm from New Joisey. Everyone in New Joisey dresses like this."
"No! They only dress like that on Saint Luigi's Day!"
And Tim said "WHAT?"
Turns out she had gone to our high school, a couple of years behind us. They had never met.
I hope you had a pleasant holiday, and if you didn't wear green, I hope you didn't get pinched. And kids, if you bring a toy machine gun to school, you will definitely get pinched.
Cute story, Rob, and I know it's true because if it were fiction, Tim and the girl would have married each other. Happy one day late Saint Luigi's Day!
ReplyDeleteAmen, Fran! Great story, Rob. Ah, the innocence, the innocence...
ReplyDeleteOne thing I didn't make clear: Tim was not part of the St Luigi crowd in high school. In fact, he is Irish American.
ReplyDeleteGreat Jersey story, Rob! Apropos of the Italian/Irish divide, it can be argued that St. Patrick was of Italian descent, as it's believed that he had Roman parents and they lived in what was then Roman-Britain territory. What is certain, is that he was not Irish. He converted the pagan Irish after having been kidnapped and enslaved by them. That'll teach'em.
ReplyDeleteRob, another good one.
ReplyDeleteThanks for making me laugh, Rob.
ReplyDeleteHaHa! Wonderful story!
ReplyDeleteI'm rolling on the floor in laughter, here!
ReplyDeleteWhat is it with Italians and holidays? Having spent the last few years steeped in the details of Columbus and the "discovery" of America (researching, writing, and promoting my book about what really happened), I'm baffled by the Italian American celebration of the event, because apart from the Admiral's birthplace, it didn't have one darn thing to do with Italians. The Spaniards were discoverers and bad guys rolled into one, and the only other Italian (on the second voyage) was a childhood friend of Columbus's and a real s.....g, no one to be proud of.
ReplyDeleteA humorous aside is that the gangster suit was a very good dark blue pin stripped suit. It was one of a set of suits that had been carefully placed atop a trash can in a Baltimore ally. Our working thesis was that the suits' owner no longer, er, had any need of them.
ReplyDeleteWhat made it a gangster suit was the black shirt, white tie, white carnation (splattered blood optional) and two day growth of beard.
Years later, while interviewing for jobs out of business school, I found that with a white shirt, red stripped tie and a clean shave, the suit was great for interviews. This was the late seventies, and many of my peers wore suits that John Travolta would find stylish. I looked like a VERY SERIOUS YOUNG MAN.
I launched my financial career with that suit.
"This is the business we've chosen", as a defender of the 1% once said.
As for the suit, it still occupies an upstairs closet. I kidded my late wife that I wanted to be buried in it. She did not concur, but the point has become moot.
Current wife doesn't know the suit's provenance.
Keep this in mind, Rob, if you're called upon to speak at my wake. I'll be the one wearing a white carnation.
Tim
Great story! Ahhhhh the good old days! GL Class of 1972!
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